She Had Stage lV Pancreatic Cancer

Growing Big in Love was an indispensable part of a very intense healing journey I went on. I was diagnosed with Stage lV pancreatic cancer in November 2022. By January 2023, I was in remission. I used the Growing Big in Love methodology very diligently along with western allopathic medical treatments, an intentionally selected combination of energetic and somatic-based holistic therapies, and the love and support of an extensive network of family and friends. Clearing past emotional blockages and filling up with positive, loving energy is instrumental in healing pretty much anything. For me, this was true! If you’re willing to do the work that this methodology proposes, I predict that miraculous healing can be available to you. I’m eternally grateful for Raven and Growing Big in Love! I was able to rapidly return to health, vibrancy and holistic well-being. May it be so for you also!” ~ CR, Oakland, Ca

For the past thirty years Spirit has been revealing to me the most incredible Love Healing Process which is called Growing Big in Love. It is to help people learn to focus on Love all the time and to heal the pain they have within them. This process shows us that most of our pain comes from acting and reacting in unloving ways caused by unloving beliefs that we have within us. Any time a person is triggered by an unloving belief, it creates an unloving emotion like sadness, terror, hatred, guilt, jealousy, anger, rage, frustration, shame, all of which are different kinds of pain. These habitual emotional reactions cause all manner of painful health and mental conditions, disease, and accidents.

Try this and you can see for yourself how it works:
Think about an experience you have had in the past three or four days that made you feel frustrated, angry, or upset. Allow yourself to relive the experience for just five seconds and see where the pain of that emotion shows up in your body. Isn’t it amazing how fast the pain showed up?

Every time you get triggered by any unloving belief you will feel the pain in your body. The pain that some beliefs create in you is constant. When you have a lot of beliefs causing constant pain, your life can become quite uncomfortable. This is what creates disease, mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical health conditions, and accidents.

People have been drawn to the Love Healing Process and Growing Big in Love for a variety of reasons, including the need to heal the following diseases, health conditions and stuck emotions that have been impacting their lives, relationships, work and happiness:

Stage 4 pancreatic cancer, colon cancer, cyst in the throat, heart conditions, ocular shingles, migraines, anxiety, ulcers, depression, disassociation, freezing feet, and a plethora of conditions caused by unloving beliefs like fear of not having enough money, terrified you will make a mistake or you can’t get it right, terrified there is something wrong with you, inner hatred, rage, greed, jealousy, guilt, and shame.

There are three really amazing things about the Love Healing Process:

1. Once you learn how it works, you can make it a part of your life.
2. It shows us a whole new way to live based on growing bigger in love daily and working on ourselves daily to heal what ails us.
3. Every belief and the habits that go with it that you heal makes you healthier, stronger, happier, enables you to feel more love and makes you more intelligent.

You get all that for learning how to focus on Love all the time and working on yourself twenty to forty minutes a day.

Willfully growing in love daily is so powerful! You will be amazed at how fast your life changes when you start using this process.

Understanding how this works, growing in Love, and working on yourself daily, creates a dynamic that enables you to develop an intimate relationship with Spirit.

Here’s another story that shows you how it works:

When Dot first came to me, the cyst in her throat was very noticeable. It was about the size of a golf ball and was hard to the touch, kind of like feeling the bone in your elbow. It was so big she was having difficulties swallowing.

In our first session I had Dot give me a short version of what her life was like from her earliest memory and describe her relationship with her mother and father. Then I had her recline so that she could totally relax, and I began instructing Dot to use a verbal technique called Voice Activated Integration. It is a process in which the client uses their own voice to communicate with their beliefs. Some clients even have direct conversations with their beliefs.

Once Dot was relaxed, the next thing that I asked her to do was open to the pain in her throat and notice if she could feel what was causing the pain. As she opened to the idea that her pain could lead her back to the original trauma that was causing the pain/cyst in her throat, she remembered when she was eight years old, and she was trying to stand up to her father. She had done something that he misunderstood, and when she tried to explain it to him, he raged at her, yelling at her so severely that she had been unable to speak up for herself since that day.

Dot was fifty-two years old at the time of the first session. The pain and the growth in her throat were caused by the stress of constantly needing to speak up for herself but believing she couldn’t and feeling too terrified to even try.

Next, we talked about her relationship with her lover and her relationships with some of her friends. I discovered that she was having a hard time standing up to any of them. She needed to speak up for herself in a number of ways, but she couldn’t. There was one person in particular that she was having a hard time with and she really needed to stand up to him. I asked her to tell me how he treated her, and then, with her permission, I took on the role of her friend. Since she trusted me and knew I wasn’t a threat to her, she was able to tell me exactly what she needed to say to him. We were both in awe at how much she had to say! It was truly amazing to see her stand in her power for the first time since she was eight.

I taught Dot how to stand up to people with a wide-open Loving heart. It makes a big difference to communicate through Love. It takes the fear out of communicating and the people she is standing up to don’t feel like they are being attacked, more like Dot is simply establishing healthy boundaries. When Dot left that day, she looked like a new person and carried herself very differently from when she’d arrived.

When she came to see me two weeks later, she was excited. After our first session, she had successfully been able to stand up for herself with the people that mattered. She had changed a life-long way of relating to others. And that wasn’t all that changed. The cyst in her throat was starting to change. It was already much softer, more like the taut muscles on your palm and it was half the size.

The focus of our remaining sessions was teaching Dot how to Grow in Love, so that she could empower her life with Love. Here is what happened for Dot in her own words:

“I have been working with Raven for several months. I have a cyst in my throat. This cyst had been with me for over a year and it was getting bigger. Basically, it looked and felt like I had a golf ball lodged in my throat. Needless to say, I was not happy and pretty scared.
After working with Raven for about a month, it was 1/2 the size and much softer. I knew then that it would go away, and my fears also went away. As we continued to work together, the cyst kept shrinking. It’s barely noticeable now.
This process is so powerful. I am learning how to heal through my own efforts, and I have full faith that the cyst will be completely gone as I continue to do this work.
In addition, I have experienced many added bonuses by doing this healing work. Other things in my life have gotten easier. Way more is being healed than just this cyst. The cyst is just an outward manifestation. I am experiencing more Love in my life through my choice to be loving. I am happier and often feel a sense of awe and inspiration. My life feels richer. I have more awareness of the ever presence of the Divine in my life.
I am grateful that Raven crossed my path when he did. He is a marvellous healer and a truly warm, generous human being.”

This healing took place in early 2007. Nine months later Dot’s cyst disappeared completely.

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